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Engagement Ring Guide

If you are looking for an engagement ring this guide will help you find the perfect engagement ring for your special someone.
by
Julie Abelstedt
Founder of Abelstedt

If you’re shopping for an engagement ring, it’s important to know the different types of rings out there and how much you should expect to spend. This guide will help you find the perfect ring for your special someone. Read on to learn more!

How to pick the right ring for your fiance

Shopping for an engagement ring can be a daunting task, but there are a couple of factors you should consider to make a perfect choice. You should first consider your fiancé’s style and personality, as this can give you insight into what type of ring will appeal to them.

A classic solitaire would be an ideal choice for someone who admires traditional design, while a more intricate style might be better suited for someone who is fashion-forward. In addition to aesthetics, look at what metal and stone will suit their lifestyle best.

Are they the active type? Then they may require something more durable like palladium or titanium. Or if they have sensitive skin then platinum with a princess-cut diamond could be ideal. Ultimately, taking into account all these factors when choosing your fiancé’s ring will ensure it is a piece that we love and cherish for years to come.

The 4 C’s of diamonds – cut, color, clarity, and carat weight

The 4 C’s of diamonds are essential in assessing the beauty, quality, and value of a diamond. The cut refers to the stone’s proportions and symmetry, emphasizing ‘brilliance’ – the flashes of light emitted from the diamond after it has been cut and polished.

Colour is all about the shade of white or ‘colorless’ that a diamond demonstrates; colorless diamonds have no traces of yellow or brown tones, which makes them more valuable than other stones. Clarity is a measure of internal characteristics such as number, size, type, position, and color; an inclusion-free diamond has greater optical transparency and therefore commands a higher price.

Finally, carat weight is simply the total mass of a stone that relates directly to its size – one carat being equal to 200 milligrams in weight. Together, these four factors make up the essential criteria for accurately rating any given diamond.

How to care for your engagement ring

After saying yes to the person of your dreams, you’ll want to make sure that you look after your engagement ring for a lifetime. The first step is to get it insured against loss or damage and make sure that if the worst was to happen, it’s covered and can be replaced.

Cleaning it with a soft cloth and mild soap regularly will keep it looking it’s sparkling best, while careful consideration should be taken when wearing it in certain activities that could cause scratches or damage such as gardening, playing sports, or working with power tools. By taking these simple steps and seeking advice from a jeweler if necessary, your stunning symbol of love will keep its sparkly beauty for years to come.

The history of engagement rings

Engagement rings have been a part of marriage ceremonies for centuries, with records showing that the tradition dates back to ancient Rome and Greece. During this time, rings used in engagement ceremonies were made from simple materials such as leather or bone. Eventually gold and silver became popular wedding ring materials, being lovingly inscribed with symbols or phrases showing the love shared between two people.

In Europe in the 16th century, diamond rings began to become more desirable due to their rarity: many believed them to be a special symbol of eternal love that no other material could provide. The current style of the engagement ring was popularized in the late 19th century by King Edward VII when he proposed to his beloved bride-to-be Princess Mary with a beautiful oval diamond set in a gold band. Today, engagement rings come in all shapes, sizes, and materials—a testament to the importance placed on celebrating true love through this lasting tradition.

Celebrities with the most expensive engagement rings

Engagement rings worn by famous couples often cost much more than the average ring. Celebrities like Kim Kardashian, Prince Harry, and Meghan Markle, and Blake Lively spent significantly large amounts of money on their engagement rings.

Kim received a 15-carat diamond ring worth $2 million from Kanye West, while Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s beautiful three-stone diamond version cost around $360,000. Blake Lively’s emerald-cut bling is worth an estimated $2 million! It is interesting to compare these prices – which would typically be considered absurdly large in ordinary life – to celebrities whose wealth and fame only continue to grow.

Read more about what you should know before you buy and ring here.

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Men's Ring Size Guide
Abelstedt Size Inner diameter (mm) Inner circumference (mm) US Size UK Size
XXXS 16.3 52 6 L
XXS 17.0 54 7 N
XS 18.0 57 8 P
S 18.8 60 9 R
M 19.6 62 10 T
L 20.4 65 11 V
XL 21.2 67 12 X
XXL 21.8 70 13 Z
How to Measure

The Tape Method

1. Grab a tape measure, string, or strip of paper.

2. Wrap it around the finger you’ll wear your ring on—if you’re creating a ring stack, consider where on your finger the ring will sit—and mark where it joins with a pen.

3. Lay your string or paper strip on a flat surface and measure the length up to the mark using a ruler. Use the chart above to match the measurement to the closest Abelstedt ring size.

Measure finger for ring size

Measure an Existing Ring

1. Choose a ring that already fits the finger well.

2. Measure the inner diameter of the ring in millimeters (mm).

3. Use the measurement chart above to match the size of your ring to the closest Abelstedt size in mm.

Measure ring size
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Abelstedt Gifting Tips

  • If you’re between sizes, go for the larger size if the ring is wide and the smaller size if the ring is narrow.
  • There’s not a large difference between two subsequent sizes on the size chart. If in doubt, go with your gut. You can always exchange the size through our easy returns process.

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Find Your Ring Size (Women)
Abelstedt Size Inner diameter (mm) Inner circumference (mm) US Size UK Size
XXS 15.3 48 4.5 I
XS 15.9 50 5.5 K
S 16.5 52 6 L
M 17.3 54 7 N
L 17.7 56 7.5 O
XL 18.5 58 8.5 Q
XXL 19.1 60 9 S
How to Measure

The Tape Method

1. Grab a tape measure, string, or strip of paper.

2. Wrap it around the finger you’ll wear your ring on—if you’re creating a ring stack, consider where on your finger the ring will sit—and mark where it joins with a pen.

3. Lay your string or paper strip on a flat surface and measure the length up to the mark using a ruler. Use the chart above to match the measurement to the closest Abelstedt ring size.

Measure finger for ring size

Measure an Existing Ring

1. Choose a ring that already fits the finger well.

2. Measure the inner diameter of the ring in millimeters (mm).

3. Use the measurement chart above to match the size of your ring to the closest Abelstedt size in mm.

Measure ring size
Abelstedt Blue Box

Abelstedt Gifting Tips

  • If you’re between sizes, go for the larger size if the ring is wide and the smaller size if the ring is narrow.
  • There’s not a large difference between two subsequent sizes on the size chart. If in doubt, go with your gut. You can always exchange the size through our easy returns process.

At Your Service

Our customer service is always ready to help. Chat with us live or send us an email.

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